(socially acceptable, non-crass techniques to ask chicks to fall asleep with you)
updated: March 17 2019 – haha – “Netflix and Chill” was originally our ‘idea’, nevertheless now it is main-stream!
If you should be house about this Saturday evening, it better be along with your fuckbuddy half-naked close to you as you both read Good Looking Loser. I invested so many Saturday nights in the home within my 20’s. We be sorry too.
In the event that you can not speak to girls through the night, simply head out to see if you’re able to make eye contact (+ laugh) with girls or get watch other guys interact with random girls take a look at our program. Even though you do not state a term the whole time – it is better for your “game” than reading my disgraceful blog that is creepy.
I did so a video clip (see below) and wasn’t gonna execute a post with this ‘common sense’ topic but I made the decision it absolutely was an idea that is good everyone see this.
Dudes that “research” sex/dating in the Web often experience ‘information overload’ and literally freeze up in their interactions or do not know where to find away where in actuality the girls stands.
They likewise have consumed a lot of “game” disinformation that Good Loser that is looking is responsible for reversing.
I’m certain you have seen those “Asking 100 Girls For Intercourse” or “Will You Have Sex if they will sleep with him with me?” viral YouTube videos where a guy asks 100 girls. Frequently he asks issue while the extremely thing that is first says.
As an example –
(do not bother watching these in full)
The girls see the camera, in some cases not in some cases. It doesn’t really matter.
The outcomes are identical in most the videos –
>98% of this girls state “No.”
Here you will find the two means –
Dining Table of Contents
0:00 The YouTube “social experiments” – just what do they mean?
1:45 Verbal vs. physical screening (physical will ALWAYS get you further, faster)
4:15 “can you love to hook up for a glass or two ?” “Lets grab a drink tonight.”
(try not to suggest it is a romantic date or coffee)
5:45 Logistical issues – where guys that nail 50+ girls via cold approach
7:25 “Do you realy want to come over and watch a film ?” “You should stop by and we’ll watch a film .”
8:20 “Normal” dudes that Get Laid a great deal use each of these ALL TIME.
9:45 Stupid egghead rebuttal: “seeking rapport/asking concerns” is wrong.
11:20 A note on how”game that is much actually matters.
12:00 which can be better? Spoken or physical material?
12:45 How to get faster aided by the physical stuff.
15:00 Use both: ask woman to generally meet for a glass or two, then her to come over for a movie/drink.
Tonight#1 Offer to Meet Up for a Drink
(“You want to grab a drink? Lets do this.”)
This proposition, among guys that get yourself a complete large amount of pussy, could be the solitary many used line within the reputation for the world.
Every woman into the universe (unless you REALLY look like boyfriend material) understands this really is an invite for future intercourse.
This is the universal, polite, socially appropriate invite for intercourse.
If you are wanting to get Laid, this will be a much better alternative than asking a girl to “dinner” so she begins taking a look at you as a prospective boyfriend and withholds her pussy until such time you are emotionally invested so that you do not think she actually is a slut.
Even the minority of apprehensive girls that think “he’s probably just hoping to get me personally drunk”, will ironically totally enable you to do this – if they are sexually available and DTF.
Lots of guys are afraid to utilize this proposition as it’s “overused” or “too normal”.
Which is absurd, the desire to be creative/witty is actually insecurity and inexperience that is social.
(i have been here, trust me)
Others are frightened that girls will think “this person would like to rape me”.
Emotionally healthy girls WILL NOT BELIEVE THAT.
Just trust me on this 1 too.
A DTF girl will perhaps not ignore a courteous invite to get a drink if she likes you with you.
We completely encourage you to definitely utilize this proposition EACH TIME before you are taking a woman’s quantity.
#2 Offer to look at a Movie/Hangout (at your house)
(“the trend is to drop by tonight and we’ll grab/watch a movie and spend time?”)
If “grabbing a beverage” is the # 1 proposition of all-time, “watch a movie/hangout” is #1b.
It might be #1 actually, this is just what everyone who Gets Laid in college uses when they’ren’t at parties.
(but it is usually the ‘after party’ pretense)
Just like the prior idea, girls understand “watch a film” to be an invite for intercourse (or at the very least some form of messing around).
Like “getting a drink”, the “watch a movie/hangout” idea is socially acceptable, polite and never too ahead.
Possibly it really is obvious however you are proposing to “watch a movie”, “pick up a film” (go out) rather than “see a film” or “go to a film” (date).
Make that clear.
(it frequently is if you say “hangout”)
The invite is a excuse that is socially acceptable the lady to come over and fool around – whenever you want.
If you should be “getting a drink” with a woman (or get on a far more traditional date) you need to use this pretense to obtain the girl to come over afterward.
All girls know very well what this means.
Girls know this and certainly will come over looking way hotter than should they were just planning to view a movie.
A “movie/hangout” could be the universal way that is socially acceptable getting a lady to come over, but these alternatives are appropriate too –
Come over and now we’ll chill.
Come over so we’ll earn some food and possess some drinks.
Come over and now we’ll just chill when you look at the spa.
Come over and then we’ll smoke weed.
Come over and we’ll do some blow.
These pretenses are not really necessary once you have fucked the lady and this woman is your fuckbuddy (simply tell/ask her to come over) – but can be helpful.
You do not need any kind of pretenses than those 2.
How/Why Does This “Work”!?
Since the girl likes both you and really wants to have sexual intercourse to you.
This woman is usually just waiting around for the opportunity to do this.
Ideally, your ex should ALREADY KNOW JUST what you are actually searching (sex, not a girlfriend) for when you meet her, but these propositions will leave no doubt.
Because of this that I don’t rely on trash like “text game” or “working on” girls once you meet them. Even yet in the small circumstances where it may look to work, it really is scarcely efficient and chances are – the lady ALREADY liked you.
The next time you wish to communicate (verbally) with her and want to know where she stands – just suggest a “drink” or “movie/hangout” that you want to sleep.
You will get your response.
If you aren’t comfortable being physical with girls although I encourage, physical screening (a little goes a long way, especially during the day), this type of “verbal screening” is a nice way to get to the point.
(still – attempt to get confident with it, spoken assessment will never be just like real screening + little talk)
Once per week, someone asks getting a woman to come over or wonders the right way to step up a “hang out” in the place of a romantic date.
If this was good judgment to you personally (consequently you ought to have ALREADY have experience making use of these pretenses at least 20-30 times) – then that’s great news.
It’s likely that – you have got recently been Getting Laid and ideally this tangled up some loose ends.
You now have the CORRECT answer to if it wasn’t common sense –
Exactly What do i actually do to generally meet (and never date) a woman?
This is certainly because easy as it gets so when a lady likes you – she will leap in the opportunity brazzers actresses to obtain a drink/movie and chill to you.